Muslims and marriage guidance. ne choice agreed to partners attempting to conserve their marriage is always to see a wedding therapist.
Salams, I have already been hitched for the previous 4 years, i work with my better half in identical business but various branches, from December 2017 I happened to be shifted towards the branch where my better half works and has now been hell i dont know even if i knew, if there is anything office related i talk he gets angry at me during working hours and refuses to talk to me even at home for me to work there as the office where i am shifted is totally full of men and am the only lady in there, my husband expects me to not talk to anyone at work because there are some people he does not like and wants me to avoid them too.. and if anyone does ask me anything he insists i should be telling them. usually at office we have been necessary to be social and produce a good impression of your self however in my situation have always been perhaps not permitted to talk laugh joke with anybody. there are specific works by telling me that if am not doing it for him he should not see me helping anyone out there otherwise its going to be a trouble for me, it has been 2 months now and it is really depressing me am not sure what am supposed to do that he asks me to help him but due to the work load i have i refuse so he threatens me. i initially began working with any household chores i wake up early morning to make breakfast and secret benefits food for lunch, i go to work come home serve him lunch go back come late in the evening take care of the house,prepare dinner, be with my 4 year old because he could not cater for my expense as he is taking care of his family, i work and cater for all my expenses without his help he just pays the house rent and our son’s fees everything else is on me. he does not help me. on weekends i head to search for meals and material alone, he doesn’t wish to provide any hand that is helping. i tried consulting my in regulations nonetheless they declined to simply help me personally, when this happens exactly just what has to be done as i work with on a clean heart i’m sure what my restrictions are as an islamic girl, my husbands behaviour is merely troubling me personally alot, if we make just one blunder at home am being told that all I do believe is of work thats generally why am unable to perform in the home and just Jesus understands exactly how much work I actually do in a day that is whole. have always been therefore unwell and stay poor all times something or the other occurs if you ask me, all of this never utilized to occur once I is at one other branch. we utilized to call home peacefully.am unsure the way to handle this when I cant live my entire life peacefully and I also haven’t any anyone to keep in touch with.
My hubby is lying if you ask me since our nikah
Salam, i’ve been hitched for nearly 4 months but me personally and my hubby have already been quarrelling since our nikah time. I have already been experiencing really insecure as there clearly was a lady included she was just a little girl seeking attention which I was aware of but my husband kept saying. This has now arrive at my knowledge which he had been associated with a haram relationship along with her before nikah and I also have discovered several improper websites on their e-mail. He claims he don’t let me know truthfully at the start as he ended up being concerned just how it might impact our wedding. Nonetheless I do not feel as him. though i could trust. I do not understand what direction to go!
Devastated by husbands desire 2nd wedding
Sent from Yahoo Mail for Assalamualaikum, i’m a mother of three stunning kids and also have been gladly married because the previous 8 years and now have been with my hubby for 13 years even as we learned within the college that is same. It all were only available in the first month of university as he proposed me personally in which he had been until I said yes after me for the next one year persuading me to say yes in spite of my rude and strict behavior. But we caused it to be specific considering that the start that i desired to generally be the only person in their life in which he also promised me personally several times which he enjoyed me significantly more than such a thing and mightn’t also think about somebody else no matter if we die. And these claims proceeded though maybe not in written, even with wedding, and also a months that are few. Our wedding was not really easy as my moms and dads are not and only the marriage while he was degreeless, homeless, jobless and packed with debts during the right period of wedding. Though, it absolutely was a tough task, we convinced my parents and then we got hitched immediately after university.